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"Luc The Perverse" <sll_noSpamli...@cc.usu.edu> wrote in message 
news:khrhm3xndj.ln2@loki.cmears.id.au...
> Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
>
> So I guess it is time to come out of the closet.
>
> Sandra (X-wife) is moving to a different state to marry her internet 
> boyfriend.   I will follow to stay close to my daughter.

Okay when I got this news, the first thing that I did was open up MSN and 
scream from the top of my MSN lungs "OMG, WHAT THE F**K HAPPENED?!" and you 
know what?

Sandra was on your MSN. Well, I did not say anything to her on the divorce 
things cause I do not want to complicate matters.
-- 
Steven Ung
The Ignorant Asian 

Luc The Perverse wrote:
> Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
> 
> So I guess it is time to come out of the closet.
> 
> Sandra (X-wife) is moving to a different state to marry her internet 
> boyfriend.   I will follow to stay close to my daughter.
> 
Something I struggle to believe, but it does explain the poem (although 
I could see you writing that anyway). It does re-enforce my resolve to 
make sure I get it right (when I decide to grab a ball and chain).

Ah well, like Thomas Edison said when a light filament didn't work, 
"that experiment was not a failure, it was a success in knowing that was 
not the one"

--
Marsh Lion
Still Single and suffering from lack of income

PS. I did think of getting on MSN to confirm what I'd just read, but 
then looking at the NZ time (9pm) and knowing that the US would be 
beyond midnight, I thought I'd better let the poor lad get to sleep 
(just as I should be doing).

"Luc The Perverse" <sll_noSpamli...@cc.usu.edu> wrote in message 
news:khrhm3xndj.ln2@loki.cmears.id.au...
> Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
>
> So I guess it is time to come out of the closet.
>
> Sandra (X-wife) is moving to a different state to marry her internet 
> boyfriend.   I will follow to stay close to my daughter.

Tough luck. All the best. 

"Steven Ung" <ste...@nodomainname.com> wrote in message 
news:a42im3x82l.ln2@loki.cmears.id.au...
> "Luc The Perverse" <sll_noSpamli...@cc.usu.edu> wrote in message 
> news:khrhm3xndj.ln2@loki.cmears.id.au...
>> Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
>>
>> So I guess it is time to come out of the closet.
>>
>> Sandra (X-wife) is moving to a different state to marry her internet 
>> boyfriend.   I will follow to stay close to my daughter.
>
> Okay when I got this news, the first thing that I did was open up MSN and 
> scream from the top of my MSN lungs "OMG, WHAT THE F**K HAPPENED?!" and 
> you know what?
>
> Sandra was on your MSN. Well, I did not say anything to her on the divorce 
> things cause I do not want to complicate matters.

I doubt you would have complicated anything.   I think she knew what you 
were talking about.

Sorry - I had already gone to bed, and she had confiscated my computer to 
video conference since her laptop is dead.

Still kinda funny though.
--
LTP

:) 

"Marsh_lion" <marsh...@SPAMparadise.net.nz> wrote in message 
news:44966ab7$1@clear.net.nz...
>> Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
>>
>> So I guess it is time to come out of the closet.
>>
>> Sandra (X-wife) is moving to a different state to marry her internet 
>> boyfriend.   I will follow to stay close to my daughter.
>>
> Something I struggle to believe, but it does explain the poem (although I 
> could see you writing that anyway).

The poem?  I sincerely don't remember what you are talking about.  (Although 
I do vaguely seem to recall writing a poem and then people telling me it 
didn't make sense because I was married or something.)

> It does re-enforce my resolve to make sure I get it right (when I decide 
> to grab a ball and chain).

LOL - I did get married quite young, and Sandra would have left me sooner 
had we not had a kid - so I suppose  your resolve is well founded.   But we 
are both quite reasonable people, and I intend on remaining her friend.  I 
don't regret my decision to get married to her.  I share in the blame of the 
downfall of our relationship.

> Ah well, like Thomas Edison said when a light filament didn't work, "that 
> experiment was not a failure, it was a success in knowing that was not the 
> one"

Even if that is what I he said precisely, I prefer the translation, after he 
had tried X times, "I have not failed at making a lightbulb, I have simply 
found X ways not to make a light bulb"

--
LTP

:) 

IN TEH PALECE KNOWEN AS alt.games.starcraft, TEH FAGGORTER "Luc The
Perverse" <sll_noSpamli...@cc.usu.edu> DUMPED HIS GHEYE
SHIET ON MY COMPUTAR SCREEN!!!!:
>Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
>
Hello, I am single, and have been for a while.

>So I guess it is time to come out of the closet.
>
....It's okay, I hear people are more acceptable about those sort of
things nowdays. 

Also, god bless you.


>Sandra (X-wife) is moving to a different state to marry her internet 
>boyfriend.   I will follow to stay close to my daughter.

Not to be mean, but I'd be kind of - no, strike that, quite offended
if I'd be married and my wife would run off with... an "Internet
Boyfriend". Well, I gather that's just the cream of the crop, but
still.

"MuuMiMan" <ihatespamandyoumustremov...@mbnet.fi> wrote 
in message news:b8id929i5mib1889qg46mjdb1buhgcmbi2@4ax.com...
 Not to be mean, but I'd be kind of - no, strike that, quite offended
> if I'd be married and my wife would run off with... an "Internet
> Boyfriend". Well, I gather that's just the cream of the crop, but
> still.

You wouldn't know, because you're way too ugly to ever
be in such a relationship. 

"MuuMiMan" <ihatespamandyoumustremov...@mbnet.fi> wrote 
in message news:b8id929i5mib1889qg46mjdb1buhgcmbi2@4ax.com...
>>Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
> Hello, I am single, and have been for a while.

That doesn't surprise me

>>So I guess it is time to come out of the closet.
> ....It's okay, I hear people are more acceptable about those sort of
> things nowdays.
> Also, god bless you.

You just want my ass (and some peanut butter)

>>Sandra (X-wife) is moving to a different state to marry her internet
>>boyfriend.   I will follow to stay close to my daughter.
>
> Not to be mean, but I'd be kind of - no, strike that, quite offended
> if I'd be married and my wife would run off with... an "Internet
> Boyfriend". Well, I gather that's just the cream of the crop, but
> still.

It wasn't quite like that.   Sandra was sick of me and needed a way out. 
She happened to meet someone that she liked, and that opened the door that 
she had been looking for.

I'm hoping that she finds true happiness yet.

--
LTP

:)

"MuuMiMan" <ihatespamandyoumustremov...@mbnet.fi> wrote 
in message news:b8id929i5mib1889qg46mjdb1buhgcmbi2@4ax.com...
> IN TEH PALECE KNOWEN AS alt.games.starcraft, TEH FAGGORTER "Luc The
> Perverse" <sll_noSpamli...@cc.usu.edu> DUMPED HIS GHEYE
> SHIET ON MY COMPUTAR SCREEN!!!!:
>>Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
>>
> Hello, I am single, and have been for a while.

What's your mom's email address? I'll ask her to nag the shit out of you so 
that she can get a grand daughter/son :p

>>So I guess it is time to come out of the closet.
>>
> ....It's okay, I hear people are more acceptable about those sort of
> things nowdays.
>
> Also, god bless you.

You, of all people believe in God? Could have had me fooled :p

>>Sandra (X-wife) is moving to a different state to marry her internet
>>boyfriend.   I will follow to stay close to my daughter.
>
> Not to be mean, but I'd be kind of - no, strike that, quite offended
> if I'd be married and my wife would run off with... an "Internet
> Boyfriend". Well, I gather that's just the cream of the crop, but
> still.

In other words, you're saying that Luc should bash that guy up and still be 
Sandra's friend?
-- 
Steven Ung
The Ignorant Asian 

"Steven Ung" <ste...@nodomainname.com> wrote in message 
news:3srmm3xnds.ln2@loki.cmears.id.au...
>>> That's not to say it can't be successful - I have a friend who met her
>>> boyfriend through an internet chat for a radio channel (harharhar) and
>>> she lived 500 km from the guy at that time. Chatted/phoned a lot, met
>>> a few times, and then finally moved here after half a year or so (to
>>> her own apartment, though) of initial contact, and they've been
>>> together ever since... ~5 years and counting, And engaged for 2 of
>>> those. Of course she'd had to move out of the boonies anyway at some
>>> point sooner or later in order to study, so I guess it was despite all
>>> the logical choice to make.
>>> Happy end for sure, but in my experience stories like that are way
>>> more the exception than the rule.
>>
>> It may fail - but I am not going to judge her in her decision.    Just 
>> let happen what happens.
>
> Well you can advise her,... as a friend at least

Have done.   She ignores me.  She plans on getting married and getting 
pregnant quickly.

--
LTP

:) 

Luc The Perverse wrote:
> "Marsh_lion" <marsh...@SPAMparadise.net.nz> wrote in message 
> news:44966ab7$1@clear.net.nz...
>>> Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
>>>
>>> So I guess it is time to come out of the closet.
>>>
>>> Sandra (X-wife) is moving to a different state to marry her internet 
>>> boyfriend.   I will follow to stay close to my daughter.
>>>
>> Something I struggle to believe, but it does explain the poem (although I 
>> could see you writing that anyway).
> 
> The poem?  I sincerely don't remember what you are talking about.  (Although 
> I do vaguely seem to recall writing a poem and then people telling me it 
> didn't make sense because I was married or something.)
> 
See thread "Fuck (A poem by LTP)" (although it appears to be much more 
recent than your devorce)

>> It does re-enforce my resolve to make sure I get it right (when I decide 
>> to grab a ball and chain).
> 
> LOL - I did get married quite young, and Sandra would have left me sooner 
> had we not had a kid - so I suppose  your resolve is well founded.   But we 
> are both quite reasonable people, and I intend on remaining her friend.  I 
> don't regret my decision to get married to her.  I share in the blame of the 
> downfall of our relationship.
> 
Fair enough. I'm quite glad you mentioned about still remaining as 
friends - A kids father is just as important as their mother (and it 
sure helps that a kids parents are on talking terms, if not loving each 
other).

As a side note, I should be more qualified to talk on this matter after 
I help out with the production side of a parenting seminar this weekend 
(A girlfriend is still a few weeks (minimum) away, and I plain to know 
her for at least 18 months before we get engaged (kids are a few years 
after marriage)).

>> Ah well, like Thomas Edison said when a light filament didn't work, "that 
>> experiment was not a failure, it was a success in knowing that was not the 
>> one"
> 
> Even if that is what I he said precisely, I prefer the translation, after he 
> had tried X times, "I have not failed at making a lightbulb, I have simply 
> found X ways not to make a light bulb"
> 
Yeah - that's a better way of putting it.

--
Marsh Lion
Single and almost no longer jobless

"Marsh_lion" <marsh...@SPAMparadise.net.nz> wrote in message 
news:449789cd$1@clear.net.nz...
>> The poem?  I sincerely don't remember what you are talking about. 
>> (Although I do vaguely seem to recall writing a poem and then people 
>> telling me it didn't make sense because I was married or something.)
>>
> See thread "Fuck (A poem by LTP)" (although it appears to be much more 
> recent than your devorce)

That is a poem about being pissed off that they changed the flavor of cherry 
pepsi

 --
LTP

:) 

IN TEH PALECE KNOWEN AS alt.games.starcraft, TEH FAGGORTER "Frans"
<phasysn...@yahoo.com> DUMPED HIS GHEYE SHIET ON MY COMPUTAR
SCREEN!!!!:
>"MuuMiMan" <ihatespamandyoumustremov...@mbnet.fi> wrote 
>in message news:b8id929i5mib1889qg46mjdb1buhgcmbi2@4ax.com...
> Not to be mean, but I'd be kind of - no, strike that, quite offended
>> if I'd be married and my wife would run off with... an "Internet
>> Boyfriend". Well, I gather that's just the cream of the crop, but
>> still.
>
>You wouldn't know, because you're way too ugly to ever
>be in such a relationship. 
>
Pah, I cheat on you once and you start acting all hard-balled. What
kind of a man are you?

"MuuMiMan" <ihatespamandyoumustremov...@mbnet.fi> wrote 
in message news:1seg929vc5ajibe3jjlhg8i9k240n72e0v@4ax.com...
> Pah, I cheat on you once and you start acting all hard-balled. What
> kind of a man are you?

Why, a hard-balled man ofcourse! 

IN TEH PALECE KNOWEN AS alt.games.starcraft, TEH FAGGORTER "Steven
Ung" <ste...@nodomainname.com> DUMPED HIS GHEYE SHIET ON MY COMPUTAR
SCREEN!!!!:

>>>Hi - I'm divorced now, and I have been for awhile.
>>>
>> Hello, I am single, and have been for a while.
>
>What's your mom's email address? I'll ask her to nag the shit out of you so 
>that she can get a grand daughter/son :p

...You sure you really wish me to breed?


>>
>> Also, god bless you.
>
>You, of all people believe in God? Could have had me fooled :p
>
Figure of speech, or something. I do officially belong to the church,
but other than the name of that paper, I'm not much of a religious
person.


>> Not to be mean, but I'd be kind of - no, strike that, quite offended
>> if I'd be married and my wife would run off with... an "Internet
>> Boyfriend". Well, I gather that's just the cream of the crop, but
>> still.
>
>In other words, you're saying that Luc should bash that guy up and still be 
>Sandra's friend?

Har, no. 
It's just that "internet boy/girlfriends" and long-distance
relationships are for most of the part a doomed and venture and people
usually engaging in such... well, it's a certain breed for most of the
part. Call it having both heard and seen too many such stories and
perhaps even some personal experience from good'ol teenage years, but
it's become a rather red flag for me :p

Personally I'm of the opinion that you can not get to know someone for
real through just the interweb/phone and perhaps even meeting a few
times. It takes time and more over, real face to face social
interaction. And no, this is not only because some people like to wear
masks while on the interwebs

But I guess that's moot now that she's actually moving to the guy, so
only thing left to see is how well interweb personalities mingle in
real life once the reality of day-to-day life hits - sometimes it can
be rather ugly.

That's not to say it can't be successful - I have a friend who met her
boyfriend through an internet chat for a radio channel (harharhar) and
she lived 500 km from the guy at that time. Chatted/phoned a lot, met
a few times, and then finally moved here after half a year or so (to
her own apartment, though) of initial contact, and they've been
together ever since... ~5 years and counting, And engaged for 2 of
those. Of course she'd had to move out of the boonies anyway at some
point sooner or later in order to study, so I guess it was despite all
the logical choice to make.
Happy end for sure, but in my experience stories like that are way
more the exception than the rule.

gIN TEH PALECE KNOWEN AS alt.games.starcraft, TEH FAGGORTER "Frans"
<phasysn...@yahoo.com> DUMPED HIS GHEYE SHIET ON MY COMPUTAR
SCREEN!!!!:
>"MuuMiMan" <ihatespamandyoumustremov...@mbnet.fi> wrote 
>in message news:1seg929vc5ajibe3jjlhg8i9k240n72e0v@4ax.com...
>> Pah, I cheat on you once and you start acting all hard-balled. What
>> kind of a man are you?
>
>Why, a hard-balled man ofcourse! 
>
Serves me for asking the obvious =/

"MuuMiMan" <ihatespamandyoumustremov...@mbnet.fi> wrote 
in message news:dveg92tt0dc2k4r73vjkm08r93ih88kff6@4ax.com...
> Har, no.
> It's just that "internet boy/girlfriends" and long-distance
> relationships are for most of the part a doomed and venture and people
> usually engaging in such... well, it's a certain breed for most of the
> part. Call it having both heard and seen too many such stories and
> perhaps even some personal experience from good'ol teenage years, but
> it's become a rather red flag for me :p
>
> Personally I'm of the opinion that you can not get to know someone for
> real through just the interweb/phone and perhaps even meeting a few
> times. It takes time and more over, real face to face social
> interaction. And no, this is not only because some people like to wear
> masks while on the interwebs
>
> But I guess that's moot now that she's actually moving to the guy, so
> only thing left to see is how well interweb personalities mingle in
> real life once the reality of day-to-day life hits - sometimes it can
> be rather ugly.
>
> That's not to say it can't be successful - I have a friend who met her
> boyfriend through an internet chat for a radio channel (harharhar) and
> she lived 500 km from the guy at that time. Chatted/phoned a lot, met
> a few times, and then finally moved here after half a year or so (to
> her own apartment, though) of initial contact, and they've been
> together ever since... ~5 years and counting, And engaged for 2 of
> those. Of course she'd had to move out of the boonies anyway at some
> point sooner or later in order to study, so I guess it was despite all
> the logical choice to make.
> Happy end for sure, but in my experience stories like that are way
> more the exception than the rule.

It may fail - but I am not going to judge her in her decision.    Just let 
happen what happens.

--
LTP

:) 

"Luc The Perverse" <sll_noSpamli...@cc.usu.edu> wrote in message 
news:00gmm3xpbp.ln2@loki.cmears.id.au...
> "MuuMiMan" <ihatespamandyoumustremov...@mbnet.fi> 
> wrote in message news:dveg92tt0dc2k4r73vjkm08r93ih88kff6@4ax.com...
>> Har, no.
>> It's just that "internet boy/girlfriends" and long-distance
>> relationships are for most of the part a doomed and venture and people
>> usually engaging in such... well, it's a certain breed for most of the
>> part. Call it having both heard and seen too many such stories and
>> perhaps even some personal experience from good'ol teenage years, but
>> it's become a rather red flag for me :p
>>
>> Personally I'm of the opinion that you can not get to know someone for
>> real through just the interweb/phone and perhaps even meeting a few
>> times. It takes time and more over, real face to face social
>> interaction. And no, this is not only because some people like to wear
>> masks while on the interwebs
>>
>> But I guess that's moot now that she's actually moving to the guy, so
>> only thing left to see is how well interweb personalities mingle in
>> real life once the reality of day-to-day life hits - sometimes it can
>> be rather ugly.
>>
>> That's not to say it can't be successful - I have a friend who met her
>> boyfriend through an internet chat for a radio channel (harharhar) and
>> she lived 500 km from the guy at that time. Chatted/phoned a lot, met
>> a few times, and then finally moved here after half a year or so (to
>> her own apartment, though) of initial contact, and they've been
>> together ever since... ~5 years and counting, And engaged for 2 of
>> those. Of course she'd had to move out of the boonies anyway at some
>> point sooner or later in order to study, so I guess it was despite all
>> the logical choice to make.
>> Happy end for sure, but in my experience stories like that are way
>> more the exception than the rule.
>
> It may fail - but I am not going to judge her in her decision.    Just let 
> happen what happens.

Well you can advise her,... as a friend at least
-- 
Steven Ung
The Ignorant Asian 

Luc The Perverse wrote:

> Have done.   She ignores me.  She plans on getting married and getting 
> pregnant quickly.
> 
Now that is someone that I would not touch with a 10 foot barge pole ... 
oh wait someone tried that on me. Thank God I broke up with her before 
we got too far. If it wasn't for your kid, I'd strongly recommend you 
let her run away ... better yet, run away yourself. Kids however need 
their good father, just as much as they need their good mother (to give 
an example, Hitler had a little party when his father died (picture a 
bad father))

--
Marsh Lion
Kidless

"Marsh_lion" <marsh...@SPAMparadise.net.nz> wrote in message 
news:4498e3cb$1@clear.net.nz...
> Luc The Perverse wrote:
>
>> Have done.   She ignores me.  She plans on getting married and getting 
>> pregnant quickly.
>>
> Now that is someone that I would not touch with a 10 foot barge pole ... 
> oh wait someone tried that on me. Thank God I broke up with her before we 
> got too far. If it wasn't for your kid, I'd strongly recommend you let her 
> run away ... better yet, run away yourself. Kids however need their good 
> father, just as much as they need their good mother (to give an example, 
> Hitler had a little party when his father died (picture a bad father))

Hitler was a bad man

--
LTP

:) 

"Luc The Perverse" <sll_noSpamli...@cc.usu.edu> wrote in message 
news:ueumm3x91t.ln2@loki.cmears.id.au...
> "Steven Ung" <ste...@nodomainname.com> wrote in message 
> news:3srmm3xnds.ln2@loki.cmears.id.au...
>>>> That's not to say it can't be successful - I have a friend who met her
>>>> boyfriend through an internet chat for a radio channel (harharhar) and
>>>> she lived 500 km from the guy at that time. Chatted/phoned a lot, met
>>>> a few times, and then finally moved here after half a year or so (to
>>>> her own apartment, though) of initial contact, and they've been
>>>> together ever since... ~5 years and counting, And engaged for 2 of
>>>> those. Of course she'd had to move out of the boonies anyway at some
>>>> point sooner or later in order to study, so I guess it was despite all
>>>> the logical choice to make.
>>>> Happy end for sure, but in my experience stories like that are way
>>>> more the exception than the rule.
>>>
>>> It may fail - but I am not going to judge her in her decision.    Just 
>>> let happen what happens.
>>
>> Well you can advise her,... as a friend at least
>
> Have done.   She ignores me.  She plans on getting married and getting 
> pregnant quickly.


Whoa...
-- 
Steven Ung
The Ignorant Asian 

Luc The Perverse wrote:
> "Marsh_lion" <marsh...@SPAMparadise.net.nz> wrote in message 
> news:4498e3cb$1@clear.net.nz...
>> Luc The Perverse wrote:
>>
>>> Have done.   She ignores me.  She plans on getting married and getting 
>>> pregnant quickly.
>>>
>> Now that is someone that I would not touch with a 10 foot barge pole ... 
>> oh wait someone tried that on me. Thank God I broke up with her before we 
>> got too far. If it wasn't for your kid, I'd strongly recommend you let her 
>> run away ... better yet, run away yourself. Kids however need their good 
>> father, just as much as they need their good mother (to give an example, 
>> Hitler had a little party when his father died (picture a bad father))
> 
> Hitler was a bad man
> 
As is my point. I'm sure that You don't want your daughter to turn out 
like him (Yes Hitler is an extreme case).
--
Marsh Lion