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Article #632423Re: Gentlemen, It Must Be Told! - RETRY
From: Mark W. Keller
Date: Sat, 28 Dec 1996 00:00
Date: Sat, 28 Dec 1996 00:00
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Could it be that this man has no backbone, and no person female or male will respect a subordinate who is a passive-agressive backbiter. I infer this by the fact that this person chooses to remain anonymous - won't even put his name on his own opinion. I personally have had the opportunity to work for several different superiors of both genders. Some were good and some were bad, but there seemed to be no gender correlation between competance and incompetance. My own management style draws heavily from a manager I respected very much and sought to emulate. That manager happened to be a woman. She was competant, level headed, open minded, very understanding but with high standards and strict expectations of performance. Her industry knowledge and experience was extensive and only surpassed by her "people skills". Another thing I've learned over the years is that if I have a problem with my boss, he or she probably has a problem with me. The best approach is to find out what that problem is, clear up any mis-understandings, and adjust my behavior to conform to or exceed the expected standards. Yet another thing I've observed is that an attitude begets an attitude. If this "gentleman" conveys a poor attitude about women, and especially female superiors, he will very likely get a negative reaction in return, thus creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. So gentlemen, it must be told: leave your chauvenism at... well, you better burn it 'cause if you leave it at home your wife will have a bone to pick with you as well. Mark
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From: "Mark W. Keller" <jdke...@pop3.frontiernet.net> Subject: Re: Gentlemen, It Must Be Told! - RETRY Date: 1996/12/28 Message-ID: <32C5D0D6.4C9E@pop3.frontiernet.net> X-Deja-AN: 206543575 references: <199612251607.IAA20138@mailmasher.com> organization: Frontier Internet mime-version: 1.0 reply-to: jdke...@pop3.frontiernet.net newsgroups: alt.computer.consultants,alt.folklore.computers,alt.mens-rights,alt.org.promisekeepers,alt.politics.correct,alt.politics.equality,alt.politics.nationalism.white,alt.politics.white-power,alt.psychology,alt.sci.sociology x-mailer: Mozilla 3.0Gold (Win95; I) Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit